Lead Life Peacefully..

Today, I like to spill out my thoughts on the way we need to lead our life. As you all would agree we have to strive to lead our life peacefully which is very difficult while balancing our personal & proffessional duties. There would be many an instances which will effect our mental balance and hence evaporates the peace in our mind. So we have to make ourselves strengther such that instances like that wont distract us. One of my Soft Skills trainer told that, in earlier days of his career he used get hurt whenever his boss treats him badly or negative thing happens to him, but later he improved hi strength's such that even if some drastic thing occurs due to him, its impact can demoralize him only for few minutes. Its like if we lost everything thats close to our heart, we must gain such strength to overcome it. Here I am not talking about techniques by which we have to strengthen ourselves, but something else which on the whole leads to similar effect.

Here If we study the various instances which effect us, their would be many cases some being originated by some human acts and others by non-human things. we cant do anything for the cases which occured by some non-human things otherthan strengthening ourselves. But for human generated acts we can do something. For this, if we go to them and explain them the nature of their act and its impact and try to change them, we are merely disturbing their peace of mind. So what else we have to do?

We cant do anything with others, becoz change wont happen to the people only by mere words. The only thing we can do is bring change in ourselves. Yes, I am saying what U read. Because, as other persons actions impact us, similarly our actions also disturbs other persons stability. So, If you consiously try not to effect others stability, U will have a very good feeling in your heart which will help us to regain our peace of mind and strengthings us. So how to go about it? As this is a matter of heart, we must act in such a way that it wont strikes or hurts others heart. This can be only done if we know which hurts heart. For this one test to do is, we have to feel how our acts impacts our heart. If our act pass this test, we can do it otherwise skip it. In our Bollywood, we call it as "Bhavanavom ko Samjavo" ( Understand the feelings).

If we practice this, the feeling that "we are doing something consiously for others" will really boost our moral strength.

Kudos to Gaurds and our brothers

Hmmm, Blog was created and with morning josh a pair of post's had flown over. So now what? Now its time to deliver a next one. As I am not that much efficient in these type of things its becoming difficult to find some interesting topic (or some hot-hot issue) to deliever as my next public expression(simply post). Ofcourse the unfortunate and heinous act of terror strike on mumbai had happened I dont want to take it as the point to concentrate on as it is already analysed a lot. Eventhen its worth to concentrate on it and to figure out some way to cope up with it and to move ahead. So I decided on it.
Normally terror strikes are out of some instant outburst, mean planning with no specific motive except to express there anger or displeasure. But if you analyze the way present terror strikes are excuted, it appears that they are well thought-out and well-executed by a very cold-blooded people who deliver the goods with near perfection. This implies that these are not done by outburst but by a well-thought out motive and which is fully absorbed in their veins. Hence we can easily conclude that they are behind something which the executors fully believed in. So what in the world is their motive would be, which can be achieved by bombing a few places and keeping hostage of some hundred's of people. And if you see the targets they selected, it appears they want to show their strength of breaking and their ability of getting upper hand over the controlling forces. By this, they want to spread fear and demoralize the society and things of that sort of.
So, in such a situation, how our response should be? Is it that let what they expect to happen and make them win or stand straight with our head high and make a point to them that whatever they do it wont distract us from our belief and focus. So I hope our mumbaikars would choose the right path and make world a strong point that what ever may be the case we stand united.
This has already started to exhibit by our mahmaddin brothers by disowning the terrorists to get buried in a religious manner. And I hope as this is first incident of this scale and near-perfect execution, our intelligence agencies will raise to the occasion and deliver together and avoid re-occurance of these type of heinous acts. My kudos to our Coastal Gaurds and National security gaurds for over-powering them and for bringing back normalcy by fighting non-stop for almost 60 hours without food and sleep.